I like your web site. Just read I want to buy a vibrator but... I would just like to comment. I recently bought one and was very embarrassed about walking into the store — however, I went with a girlfriend and it made it fun and funny. We were cracking up and making jokes about everything. I suggest bringing a close friend along to make it fun. Also, mine looks like a penis, so I put it inside of a sock and stuck it under all my other socks. This way, if anyone "happens" to be looking through that drawer (which they probably would never do), all they will see is a sock!

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Dear Alice,

I have three vibrators and I love them! I have a waterproof one and two other ones...but I have to worry about the noise too! So what I do is wait for my parents to go to bed, and then do it because I know that no one's listening..or when I take the waterproof one into the bathroom, I take a boombox, and turn it up...not too loud, but so that its loud enough, and do it in there..but when you reach your orgasm, you can't scream, moan, etc.....I just breath in and out...to repress the moaning..hehe...oh..and I keep it in my closet, in a box where I keep old letters, journals..etc...my parents haven't found it yet, and I've had them for about a year now. So yeah! Have fun!

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Alice,

I think that a vibrator should be part of every girl's tool kit! I had my first REAL orgasm at 23 with a vibrator. I only thought I knew what an orgasm was until then. Sex in all its forms has been great ever since. I only wish I had the guts to buy one years earlier.

To think that I missed out on those years of pleasure just to avoid others' judgment of me. I might even still be missing out had it not been for a bold friend who bought me one. We need to encourage them and remove their stigma.

Sally, MI

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Dear Alice,

Shortly after my step mom walked in on me while I was masturbating last year, she gave me and my sister vibrators and even encouraged us to use them. It's one of those that looks like a penis. I was so embarrassed when she walked in on me but this simple gesture melted my shame away. All my friends have them but I couldn't see myself shopping for one. She said she would rather give me one then have me wondering around in some of those dirty stores. We don't even need to hide our toys now from each other. She is cool about those things and said she used them since she was our age and even admitted she still liked to use them several times a week in between having sex. I masturbate a lot more since I got a vibrator I guess because it makes it so easy to do it and my orgasms are so intense now. I thanked her many times for this, which she takes in, and only wish other moms would be as open and encouraging. Everyone should have one.