I read your site often and just came across this one. You say to give the masturbating roommate credit for at least waiting until she thinks the writer is asleep. I really like your web site, but this is a bit too much. I masturbate every day and I love it as much as anyone else, but the masturbating roommate is simply out of line and being very disrespectful — even if she thinks her roommate is sleeping, the roommate might wake up at any minute, especially because of the moaning!

I think the advice you give is basically good, but there is no excuse for what this person is doing. She needs to respect her roommate and find a private place to masturbate. She should not be applauded for waiting until after bedtime.

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Dear Alice,

RE: Roommate masturbates every night Is this roomate staying awake waiting for the other roomate to start masturbating? I mean come on, if she thinks your asleep maybe you are pretending to be and waiting for her to start. Go to SLEEP and you won't know. Masturbating is NORMAL whether you want to admit it or not. If she is too loud ask her to please keep it quiet so that it doesn't disturb your sleep. Go to sleep and quit laying there waiting for her to start playing with herself.